The dead saw that marry known : the effect of the actor affects him better than a prayer or a link . If he sees that he is getting married with the sanctity of the dead, then the subject reaches the object with goodness, such as charity, ritual, or supplication . And if he sees a known dead person marrying alive, he arrives at the shaken neighborhood that is better than the legacy of the deceased or his heir or his heir from knowledge or something else . The kiss is the opposite, because the subject in it afflicts and accepts better than the object .